published Tuesday, December 6th, 2011 at 4:49 pm by
The Career Success Doctor
Many of us were shocked and saddened to hear of the suicide of the manager of the Welsh national football team, Gary Speed. He was 42, he’d seemed well, happy and enthusiastic about his family, his career success and the Welsh team, and yet something must have been very wrong for him. People drew parallels between his death and that of the German goalkeeper, Robert Enke.
But something positive seems to have come out of his death, too. It is reported that several top footballers have sought help for their depression in the days following his death. And it has put the question of mental health back on the agenda.
One of the questions people ask is, how can highly paid, successful sports stars, who have it all, become so miserable. I think one of the answers lies in the relationship between depression and stress.
Top competitors can be as stressed in their career as anyone. They put themselves through demanding training regimes, and many of them sacrifice their family life to the requirements of the sport as the pursue their career success. The satisfaction you can achieve when you are that focused on one thing and one thing only can be enormous. But that level of success is not always enough, and many sports people find it difficult to cope with the consequences of failure, or a dwindling career. Read the rest of this entry »