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The Healing Power Of Woo-Woo: Hawaiian Style

Written by The Career Success Doctor

Healing Hawaii Beach

Twice a year I come to Hawai’i to study and teach Huna, the life philosophy of the Hawaiians. And that’s where I am right now.

I feel enormously privileged to be here, and to be able to do this. It’s always hectic, particularly once the students start turning up, and I have to put energy into ensuring that everything is in place for them to have a really great experience, yet each time I do this, I grow too. It’s always a salutary reminder of just how rewarding it is to support others in their journey.

Huna’s been a lifesaver for me. I used to say, when people asked me what it is, that it’s the spiritual, psychological, energetic and healing practices of the ancient Hawaiians, but the truth is so much more than that. The Hawaiians don’t separate Huna from Being. For them, all these things we Westerners strive to study are just a natural part of living, of being healthy in mind, body and spirit.

We teach Huna in a Western way, to suit the Western mind. For me, growing up in a rather traditional British family, the idea we might all be connected, that my judgements and reactions to others might reflect judgements I make about myself and emotions I have suppressed,  just did not feature in the way we lived life. My mum, a trained nurse, was deeply hostile to anything psycho. Psychiatry, psychology, being psychic, all were anathema, weirdness, unscientific, unproven, a sign of weakness. And as for meditation, well! God was OK, though, and Sunday was Church day (which turned out to be quite profitable for me as I got paid to sing in the choir!)

That attitude was common back in the day. It’s wonderful that people are becoming much more open to the idea that we have both a conscious and an unconscious mind, that we are connected, that there is something of a higher order, be it god, the universe, the collective, that just because you can’t see energy doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. You can’t see electricity either, but come the power cut we all know it exists!

If you’re finding life stressful, or you’re feeling out of flow, then here are a couple of Huna tips that might help you.

1. Breathe. When Captain Cook and his merry men first showed up in Hawai’i, the Hawaiian’s called them haole. Literally it means no-breath. Hawaiians take the time to breathe deeply, in through the nose, before doing or saying anything important. Breathing brings oxygen into your lungs – vital for organ health and brain function.

2. Come from a spirit of aloha – love. Honour other people, other beings, and the connection we all share. That doesn’t mean you have to hang around with people who sap your energy – but do respect their right to be on the planet, and learn what you need to learn from them.

3. If something gives you energy (real energy, not crash and burn energy) then do more of it. If it doesn’t , then stop doing it! Energy drinks are a classic example. We take energy drinks because we THINK they give us energy. A friend of mine was knocking back 5 or more a day, and decided to give it a rest for a few weeks. After the first few days, he couldn’t believe how much more energy and focus he had once he left the energy  drinks behind.

If you’d like to know more about Huna and the Hawaiian approach to living well, leave a comment below this post. I’d love to know your experiences with the world of woo-woo.

Filed Under: Huna and Ho'oponopono Tagged With: Balance, energy, Hawaiian Huna, Huna

How To Succeed At Interview – Change The Way You Breathe

Written by The Career Success Doctor

In previous blogs I’ve talked about How To Succeed At Interview using your body language, and using your voice. This latest video is all about building rapport and making that all-important good impression in less than 10 seconds using your breath. This is certainly the subtlest way to build a connection with another person very rapidly, and arguably the relationship you build is deeper than with any other method.

It’s all about noticing how the other person breathes, and matching where they breathe from, the speed of breath, and when they are breathing in and out. It works in interviews, work meetings with relative strangers, bank managers, mortgage brokers, and even blind dates!

Check out the  video below for the why, the what and the how of improving your chances of interview success using this method.

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Filed Under: Career, Career change, Career success, Success Tagged With: Build Rapport, interview, interview success, rapport, succeed at interview, use your breath

Brian Tracy – Top Qualities Of Effective Leaders

Written by The Career Success Doctor

Qualities Of Effective Leaders Brian TracyMoodling round the internet, looking for ideas for a summit a colleague and I are creating (more of that to come), I came across an article and video by Brian Tracy on the Top Qualities Of Effective Leaders. Since my PhD thesis is on Leadership and Spirituality, I’m always curious to find out what other people have to say on the subject of Leadership.

As well as being a personal development expert, Tracy is also a super salesman, so this recent article on leadership is very much geared up to selling his book. However, he does know a thing or two whereof he speaks, and he does have good ideas, so I took a few moments just to absorb what he has to say on the subject.

Change The Way You Think Of Yourself As A Leader

As Tracy points out, Leadership is essential in all walks of life. It’s easy to say ‘Oh, I’m not a leader’ but if you want real career or business success, then you’d better step up and become one! I remember going on a leadership course over 15 years ago. It was a personal development course, and I thought I wanted to be seen as a leader at work. What I discovered was that, if you’re going lead others, whether it’s in the workplace, at home, in your social life, in your helping the community life, you first have to learn how to lead yourself.

Pity I hadn’t studied with Tracy (although I’m not sure effective leadership was his thing back in 1996), because he talks about the importance of personal/self development for leaders.  I love the following comment: ‘You are what you think you are. Your self-concept determines your performance. You can become a much more effective leader by changing your self-concept, by changing the way you think about yourself as a leader.’

‘Your self-concept determines your performance’. Have you noticed that in your life and career?

What ARE The Qualities Of Effective Leaders?

In the video on The Qualities Of Effective Leaders which is linked to the article – and which, presentationally, is a bit clunky, but never mind – Tracy highlights the following points which we need to take on board to become good or great leaders.

  • Top leaders focus on their strengths and developing their strengths and the strengths of those around them.
  • Good leaders know how to be role models in and outside work
  • Integrity – people follow people they trust
  • Choose your boss with care.

I particularly like the last one!

Meantime here is the link to the rest of the article on 2 Leadership Traits Needed to Become a Great Leader.

What do you think? I’d love to see your comments.

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Filed Under: Career, Career success, Leadership Tagged With: Brian Tracy, Effective Leadership, Leadership, Qualities Of Effective Leaders

Do You Feel Bored With Life?

Written by The Career Success Doctor

Feeling Bored With LifeMost people feel bored, or at least feel a certain kind of sameness in their lives from time to time, but for many, that ‘I feel bored with life’ feeling is par for the course. It’s perpetual, it never seems to go away. It’s living life in the grey zone. Same stuff, different day syndrome (SSDD).

I’ve certainly experienced that in the past. I can think of three extended periods since I was 16 where I craved frequent excitement or just something different. And sometimes getting off my face with my mates seemed the only way to accomplish it. I stopped going down that route when I woke up one day and realised that getting mind-blowingly drunk or taking naughty drugs might be fine in the moment, but it left me even more miserable the following day, or even for an entire week.

It took me a few years to learn to appreciate the joy in small things. I’ve learned that my desire for rebellion and excitement is much better satisfied by doing something I’m passionate about, which matters to me and enables me to live my purpose, than it ever was by doing things which are illegal or being different for the sake of being different.

Does my career still throw up tasks which I’d rather not do because they are rather tedious, even boring or routine? Most certainly? Things to do with detail tend to have that effect on me, which is why proof-reading drives me nuts! (And apologies to all regular readers who spot the typos I have missed).

Do I miss the adrenalin rush that goes with the risk of taking drugs (that’s risk on a number of levels) or shopping beyond my means? Actually, no.

If I really need an adrenalin rush, then I can go zip lining/bungie jumping/horse riding, or just plunge into a rather cold swimming pool. I can do something that takes me way out of my comfort zone like phoning someone who I barely know and asking them to participate in an online conference I’m going to be running in the summer. (Believe me, that one has my adrenalin sky-rocketing!)

What To Do When Your Feel Bored And It’s Affecting Your Life

All those thoughts were prompted by yet another great article from Dr Matt James. Matt has this knack of hitting the spot with his articles, and this one on ‘Same Stuff Different Day’ is no exception. He explains the problem clearly and offers solutions, including

  • ho’oponopono (the Hawaiian forgiveness and release technique). I particularly recommend clicking on the link in the article to download his free ho’oponopono tracks. (Hot tip: you need to download both tracks – track 1 is the explanation, track 2 is the guided technique)
  • taking action
  • maintaining focus.

You can read the rest of Dr. Matt’s article, and get the link to his ho’oponopono track here.

 

Filed Under: Happiness, Huna and Ho'oponopono, Social Tagged With: adrenalin, adrenalin rush, boredom, Dr Matt James, feel bored with life, feeling bored, Ho'oponopono, same stuff different day

I’m So Excited! My First Career Success Webinar Is Up.

Written by The Career Success Doctor

Career Success Webinar From The Career Success DoctorI am SO excited – I have just made my first career success webinar available to a wider public. Although I have been a career coach for many years, using the career success process I developed myself and which I’ve tested with many, many clients, I’ve never really spoken about it in public before. And now I am.

In the webinar, I talk a little bit about my background, and how I got to where I am now. I also take you through various tips and techniques to really help you change your career. And when you watch through to the end, you’ll find details of a really special offer I am making. Sharing valuable information is a key part of who I am, and my purpose in life, so that’s what I am doing.

Here’s the link to sign up to watch the career success webinar. It’s free!

Filed Under: Career, Career change, Career success Tagged With: career, Career Change, Career Coach, Career Success, How To Have A Career That Really Works For You, The Career Success Doctor

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